You lose control when you depend or expect other people to change your condition. If somebody gives your rights and freedoms they can equally take it away. All are created in the image and likeness and of God and our rights don't come from any human being. Nobody should wait for others to validate them or make them more human. Check out Racism, Where Is Your Sting? A provocative look at the beginning and the end of racism

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